Sometimes there are things that are on my mind that I'm going through and I can only express them through words on my blog. I've been trying to find a way to express these feelings to the individuals themselves but am having problems. I don't want to come off as nasty, rude or harsh. I've known these individuals for quite some time and have come to find out who they really are and I want nothing to do with them. I rather leave them alone and not deal with them than to have them in my life or in my business. They constantly try to reach out to me by calling, emailing, texting or sending messages on MySpace. I never answer them because I am hoping that they will eventually get the hint and stop trying. I really don't want to come out my face and say "Listen....please stop calling me because I want nothing to do with you" which is something I would say and they know it. These individuals are not my friends although they will beg to differ. I don't consider them to be my friends because true friends don't talk behind your back....they would tell you straight up and to your face whatever is on their mind whether you like it or not. True friends will be there for you in your time of need....not become M.I.A. when they told you they would help you out. So this is a message for all of my friends.....for people I consider to be my friends.....and that's not many. I am very careful when I label someone my friend. I have tons of acquaintances but very few friends. Friends are people who know my family and my kids. I'm not talking to anybody in the industry. I'm talking about some personal stuff. So my message is this (TO ALL MY FRIENDS) if you call me and I don't call you back....this message was for you. If you text me and I don't text back......this message is for you. If you ring my bell and I don't answer....this message was definitely for you. There will be quite a few changes to the so called friends I had in my life and it's time I let a few new ones in. People who really are concerned with my well being and who are looking to make a positive impact in my life. FAREWELL OLD FRIENDS!!!!
1 comments:
So true! I've gone throught the EXACT same thing! I know I'm late but.. You put it well.
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